New Ignatian Gathering Added to the events page

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This gathering is part of the advanced Ignatian series for those who have prayed the Ignatian Exercises.

Giving, Receiving, and Giving Again

Giving, Receiving, and Giving Again

A Prayer written reflecting on the last prayer of the Spiritual Exercises, the Contemplation Of Divine Love.

Jesus, you share with me

A generous indwelling of joy

Your movement of giving

Receiving

And giving again

So natural with Father and Spirit

Offered to me now as invitation

To receive and give back what you have given

In freedom, in desire, in love

I have nothing to give, and everything

I fail and succeed with abandon

I find you anywhere and everywhere

Always being found where I am

You never stop living your life in me

Delighting my joys

Grieving my sorrows 

Illuminating my memories

Igniting my hopes

Ever finding your desires stirring within me

Never knowing where you will lead next

In this wild life of discernment

New chances to be joined with you

And all of this is your delight

Treasured unitings

Full of friendship, rejoicing

So take, Lord, Receive

All of this is yours

I give it all to you.

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.

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Where were you, Jesus? A double-edged question for spiritual healing

Many Christians go through life unable to honestly dialogue with God about the disappointments and hurts they carry, overwhelmed by the pain and brokenness of the world and the traumas they have personally survived. We’ve been taught that we have no standing to question God, that everything happens for a purpose.  We may fear that asking the question will start us on a path of deconstruction where we might lose our faith, and besides, talking about these things with God requires a level of intimacy and trust that we may not have or feel ready for. 

As a spiritual director working with someone who has been through significant trauma, loss, or suffering, I want to help them get to a place where they can honestly address their hard questions directly to God in prayer, in their own authentic, unsanitized, messy way. Often a significant step forward is when they can articulate those hard questions to me in a spiritual direction session. Once they are able to articulate these things to me they are almost always able to respond positively to my invitation, “would you be willing to say to God directly what you just said to me?”

They may pray something like, “Where, were you, Jesus, when my mother died, when my parents neglected me, when my church hurt me when systemic injustice was so destructive? I know you are good. I know in my head that you love me. But that flies in the face of my experience. I went through hell and you were not there, you didn’t save me from this suffering, you didn’t intervene.” 

Being able to articulate “Where were you, Jesus?” in prayer, even in an accusatory way, is a huge step forward spiritually because it is a huge step forward in relationship and intimacy with God. If you are a parent and your teenager is mad at you and hiding in their room, refusing to come out, you wish they would just come and talk with you directly. That’s how God feels as well. God wishes the older prodigal son would just come talk to him about his resentments. God longs for us to be willing to address our grievances with him.

When someone brings these hard questions to God, notice that nothing about their trauma has changed and their question has not been answered, but something profound has happened. Saying “Where were you, Jesus?” clears space in their relationship with God, space for God’s work, space for healing, space to listen to God. People typically feel emotionally lighter, with a sense of release. The burden of holding back that question has been heavy, and they often feel immediate relief. I imagine Jesus smiling at them, so glad for this step forward in their relationship. 

Stating their accusatory question, “Where were you, Jesus?” allows them to begin a season of engaging the same question in a new and inquisitive way. “Where were you, Jesus? I didn’t experience you there with me, Jesus, but I want to be able to see how you were with me, how you were at work, there in my time of trial.” 

Jesus is always with us, at work loving us, caring for us. And Jesus has always been there with them, even in their time of trial. Often the directee has already named some of the ways he was with them as they told me their story, people God brought into their lives to support them, ways they were provided for, etc. Asking their accusatory question now gives them space and openness to see anew how God actually was with them. The question “Where were you, Jesus” takes on a whole new meaning. 

Some of the ways that God was with them in their time of struggle will become clear as they review their story asking this new inquisitive version of the question. But God is also alive and speaking to them and may reveal things that were not apparent in their history. Sometimes I invite directees to take some time in silent prayer and listen to see what God might say, and I’m continually amazed at what God does in those times. God may say nothing, but give them a sense of peace. God may tell them that he loves them. God might say that he is so sorry for what happened to them, that he didn’t want that to happen. God might give them an image of him with them during their time of trouble, holding them, weeping with them. Etc, etc.

In my experience, the accusatory question of “Why did you let this happen to me?” often is not directly answered and does not completely go away, but they experience a deep sense of God’s love and care for them, that God has been with them, and the accusatory question no longer is of primary importance. They know God’s love and care for them in a new way. Their relationship is unclogged, and they begin to experience more healing and freedom.

In my own experience, praying the Ignatian Exercises with a daily heart to heart with Jesus has been a context that God used for me to ask this double-edged question. I see now some of the ways God has been using it in my life. But it is an ongoing joy to see God doing this work in my directees, deepening their relationship with God and expanding their terrain of freedom.

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.

If you are interested in praying the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius with me starting in September, please contact me.

Ignatian Prayer with Jesus And George Floyd

Ignatian Prayer -Encountering Jesus’ Love For George Floyd

This prayer exercise was inspired as I watched George Floyd’s funeral and experienced Jesus filling my heart with his love for George and his sorrow for George’s death. I hope that it may bless you and encourage you to join Jesus in his desire for and work to redeem this world, starting with yourself. I offer this as a limited attempt to join Jesus (who had dark skin) in his love for George, not believing that you will in any way capture or experience the full reality that George and African Americans face in our country but that Jesus will guide you into his heart. On a practical note: If you prefer to pray with a physical piece of paper you can print this PDF -Dale

An Ignatian Prayer Exercise

• Spend 3-5 minutes receiving the Lord’s love for you. Consider how Jesus has loved you from before you were born, as a young child, as a teenager, as an adult, sharing your joys and sorrows. Imagine Jesus with you, looking upon you with great love.  Let him tell you he loves you. Receive his love.

• Briefly pray to give this time and yourself to God.

• Ask for the grace to encounter Jesus’ love for George Floyd, to be affected and changed by his love.

• Briefly familiarize yourself with George Floyd’s life, consider the details as if you were his good friend or loving parent. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Floyd

• Pray using your imagination and let yourself feel deeply, welcoming the joy, love, tears, anger -whatever comes- that God may be at work in your prayer:

• Imagine Jesus loving George in his mother’s womb, at his birth, walking with him and delighting in his childhood, how he learned to walk and talk, and grew strong and tall, faced racism and racist systems surrounding him, loved football and basketball, moving from North Carolina to Houston Texas.

• Spend some time with Jesus rejoicing in this gentle giant, George, playing college basketball, contributing to the Houston hip-hop scene, George leading and mentoring other young Christians at his church. See the joy that George gives Jesus.

• Join Jesus still loving and walking with George in the sin and hardships he endures, as he is discriminated against, as he gets entangled with drugs, makes poor choices and spends four years in prison. Notice how Jesus suffers with him, celebrates when George then serves in a local ministry, how he is with George as he moves to Minneapolis, working as a truck driver, security guard, making an anti-gun violence video. Notice how Jesus loves him.

• Now stay with Jesus as George loses his job due to COVID, as Jesus witnesses George’s murder, his anger as George cannot breathe, as his neck is kneeled upon, sorrow in his heart as George cries out to the officers, to his mother, to God, Jesus’ tears as George dies, Jesus embracing him saying today you are with me in paradise.

• When you end your imaginative prayer, have a conversation with Jesus about what you experienced.  Tell Jesus what you want to say to him. Listen and wait for what Jesus wants to say to you about what you just experienced. What is he saying to you? How have you been moved? How does Jesus invite you to respond in your life, in our world?

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.

If you are interested in praying the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius with me starting in September, please contact me.

Entering The Joy Of The Resurrection In A Time Of Pandemic

The Resurrected Christ, an icon by Marie-Paul Farran, O.S.B.

Entering The Joy Of The Resurrection In A Time Of Pandemic

It’s Easter. Christ is risen. It’s a time of joy and gladness. Or at least it’s supposed to be. We celebrated Easter by Zoom this year and it just wasn’t the same. We didn’t feel that same fullness of joy. We were not surrounded physically by our brothers and sisters in Christ celebrating the resurrection. But we did feel Easter joy, our hearts were warmed, we celebrated and rejoiced. 

But now, a few days after Easter, the joy is fading. Eastertide is being overwhelmed by working from home, people dying alone in hospital beds, economic hardship, and politics of division and madness. How can we enter into and live in the joy of the resurrection in this time of pandemic? We want to rejoice, but to be honest we don’t have it within ourselves to remain joyful.

Jesus rises from the dead with joy not only to be reunited with his disciples, but he is also filled with joy to come to us, today, each and every one of us, right where we are. He loves us and delights in us, he is so glad to be with us. In the challenging places we find ourselves this Eastertide, he comes to us and he is filled with joy. And being filled with joy, he offers his joy to us. He is real and his joy is real. We don’t have to work harder to feel joyful. We don’t have to manufacture our own joy. Jesus has so much joy and he invites us to share in it with him.

Enter into the joy of the Lord! See Jesus full of joy and let his joy become contagious. Let his joy flow through you. May you be caught up in his joy, filled with a joy that is not your own, but becomes yours, through him.

Become these lines from Joseph Telow’s poem Free Indeed. 

You make me feel beside myself with surprise

My spirit glistens with your rising

I smile and smile with you

I am drowning in the laughter of your friends

Jesus is with you, welcoming you to joyful celebration. Even in the midst of your sorrows, even in the midst of this pandemic, he offers you his joy. Open the door. Welcome his joy in. And live a life full of his joy, the joy of the resurrection.

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.

This reflection comes out of the prayers of the Ignatian Exercises. If you are interested in praying the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius with me starting in September, please contact me.

An Ignatian Easter Prayer by Joseph Tetlow

I’m excited to be leading two groups of people through the Spiritual Exercises of Ignatius of Loyola this year and we have just started praying the theme of the resurrection. I find myself inspired by Joseph Tetlow, a Jesuit master of the Exercises. He has written some great prayer-poems, and in this Easter season, I offer you this one.

Free Indeed

You did a marvel, Lord Jesus Christ,
and make me feel beside myself in surprise.

My spirit glistens with Your rising.

I smile and smile with You,
I am drowning in the laughter of Your friends.

You have won, Lord, we know You have won!

You have defeated all the worst that we could do,

each alone and all together.

You crushed the power of darkness and of death

to walk peacefully again in our flesh,

now and forever.

Come to me, great Lord of life,

as You come to all your friends.

Send me to console those around me who hurt.

Come, and send Your friends into this daily world

to labor full of hope for the Reign of God.

-Joseph Tetlow -Choosing Christ In The World (A guide to the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius.)

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Resurrection of Jesus Icon

Resurrection: An Ignatian Guided Prayer

Resurrection: An Ignatian Guided prayer

It is Easter Sunday morning and you are there at the tomb before daybreak and you are allowed to experience the resurrection.  

The Father and the Spirit come to the tomb, to raise you from the dead.  They are experiencing great loss. Jesus is dead and they miss him. The angel rolls away the stone and they enter the tomb.

The Father proclaims, “Death, you are defeated. Death, you are broken. Death, release your prey.”  The Spirit breathes life into your body. They unwrap the grave clothes from your body. You open your eyes.  You sit up. You feel new life in your veins. Death leaves your body. You are filled with Joy. The Trinity embraces with joy, together again, separated no more. The world is right again.  All the pain and suffering and injury are healed in you, leaving only scars. And you are filled with love, love for your people, love everywhere. You have conquered death. You have won the victory. 

(Now the scene shifts as Jesus comes to you.)

Jesus turns to you and says, “you have accompanied me in my passion and death. You died with me, now receive new life with me.” You run to him and you embrace. He says, “I love you. It is so good to see you again. It’s so good to be alive and to be with you again.”

And Jesus says, “It’s good to be alive.  My dying was terrible. I was abandoned and forsaken. The whole world turned against me and crushed me. Evil triumphed and destroyed me. See I still have the marks. Bitter death overcame me, but now I am raised in power to new life.” 

And you say to Jesus, “Oh, Jesus, it has been so hard to see you suffer and walk this path.  There is an ocean of grief in me. It’s hard to even take in that you are alive. Part of me still suffers with you in your passion.” You begin to weep.  Jesus embraces you again and says, “I give you my joy.” 

Suddenly you are filled with and overwhelmed with joy.  His joy fills and overflows you. Everything is good; everything is right. You stand there for a long time, just being together.  Your heart is filled with peace. Reunited with Jesus.

Take some time to talk with Jesus. Say what is on your heart and mind.

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.

If you are interested in praying the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius with me starting in September, please contact me.

Christ's Descent into Hell Fresco at Monastery of Saint-Antoine-le-Grand

Becoming Simon of Cyrene - An Invitation To Imaginative Prayer

Becoming Simon of Cyrene - An Invitation To Imaginative Prayer

Simon of Cyrene

By Sieger Koder

I love this painting by Sieger Koder, of Simon of Cyrene helping Jesus carry the cross. They stand side by side, pressed together, arms around one another, holding the cross. In this heartbreaking scene from Jesus’ passion, Simon is the one closest to him, bearing Jesus’ burdens. As we pray the Ignatian Exercises we discover a deep desire to be close to Jesus, as close as Simon was that day. 

As an experience of love and to bind us more closely to him, we are invited to enter into the scene and become Simon. We are invited to use our imagination to become the person who is that close to Jesus, helping Jesus carry the cross when he doesn’t have the strength to on his own. 

Engage your senses. What do you hear? What do you smell? What do you taste? what do you feel? What do you see? -The crowds, the soldiers, the women, and most importantly Jesus. What emotions do you experience? Is there love and compassion for him in your heart? Is your heart heavy with sorrow? Do you get a sense of what Jesus feels, what is on his heart? What do you say to him as you carry the cross together? What does he say to you?

Let the Spirit lead you and inspire your imagination. Receive everything as a gift. If you feel the prompting to respond in a particular way, don’t hesitate to do so. Let this experience bind you to him in love.

When you are done spending time with Jesus in this scene, take a few moments to speak to Jesus, to say what you want to say to him about this experience. Then listen to see what he is saying to you in response. Give thanks for what you have been given.

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.

If you are interested in praying the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius with me starting in September 2021, please contact me.

You Loved Them To The End

You Loved Them To The End

“Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.”

“Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.”

Jesus, the priests, elders, teachers, leaders of your people 

Stand to condemn you with mouths filled with lies

How do you respond? 

You say nothing but your heart radiates love

For your chosen people, who call you enemy

If only they would turn, and still some may

Then you would gather them to you

To the end, your heart aches with love for them

And then bound before Pilate

Bloodthirsty, heathen, manipulative self-interest

But child of God still the same. 

If only he would receive your living water

Your bread of life, the light you shine

But this is just another political calculation

Doing whatever to keep this bloody peace

And to the end, with love, your soul mourns his hard-heartedness

Now the crowds, chanting against you, whipped to a frenzy

You see and know each one

Timaeus, Alpheus, Sharon, Joses, Efraim

Jonath, Mara, Michah, Imma, Eli

Each created as a gift, a vessel for your love, Treasured

But they shout for your blood and choose a criminal for freedom

How your heart breaks to see them captive and ensnared in hatred

And yet you love them to the end

And the soldiers taking advantage of your helplessness

Mocking, striking, spitting, taunting

Outdoing one another with cruelty

So far from what they were created to be

To show kindness, to bless and build up

As the blows rain down upon you, you cry out in your spirit with each impact

I, Love, You, Beloved, Child, Not, Forgotten, Forgive, Them

You send out blessings as they beat you

Even the soldiers you love to the end

Now they nail you to the cross, and your blood flows freely

Crying out your love to all those gathered jeering

If only they could see the compassion in your eyes

Your deep desire for reconciliation

For thieves to join you in paradise

For an end to the mourning and suffering and death

You love them to the end and so, every fiber of your being cries out

“Father forgive them for they know not what they do” 

Even in your despair, you hold onto love

For each of these your children, gone so far astray

Jesus, we know your enemy love by this

That while we were still sinners

you loved us in your passion

You loved us to the end

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.

This prayer was inspired by the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. If you are interested in praying the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius with me starting in September, please contact me.

A Blessing For The Storm

A Blessing For The Storm

May the Lord bless you and keep you

May Jesus be with you in the storm 

not in your boat

but may you be in his boat

Whether sleeping or awake

Trusting or frightened

Joyful or sorrowing

May you know his presence.

May you hear him speaking to the wind and the waves

Speaking peace and calm wherever you may be

May you know how cherished you are

beloved daughter, beloved son

You are not alone

You are held in his sustaining love

© Dale Gish 2020. All Rights Reserved.